I solve urgent, painful and often expensive problems my clients are struggling with and don’t know how to solve…no matter how many things they have tried.
It is my heartfelt, driving passion to help these people because they are struggling and stuck with painful problems that I know how to solve!
It breaks my heart because it’s so unnecessary! You may not know or believe there is a way out of the struggle, but I do!
Empowering and Healing Women and their Money
Finances are the number 1 cause of arguments and the biggest contributing factor when it comes to couples splitting up.
Take a few moments to see how you feel about the following:
- Your Savings
- Your Debt
- Your Income
If you had any negative feelings when thinking about them, they are very likely to be connected to a time or sense of loss in your life.
You may well have Toxic Money issues – you lost money or didn’t end up with the amount of money you felt was due, or once due to you.
If you’re divorced, separated or separating from a significant partner, or even if you are CONSIDERING separating, ALL of the above are likely to be MUCH MORE SIGNIFICANT.
Working with me will release the trauma and fear associated to your money and clear the negative associations and impact it has on you, your family and your relationships.
Breakups revolve around possessions and money as well as who has access to the kids. But these are so closely related to, and cause deeper feelings of hurt such as:
- Betrayal, injustice
- You are traumatised because of all the conflict and at the thought or act of breaking up your family.
- You’re experiencing anxiety, even panic attacks.
- You’re tired, run down, you can’t concentrate and have no time for yourself, no motivation to exercise, study, you’re just surviving.
- You’re so overwhelmed. Your brain feels like a mangled mess, you question your own reality and nothing ever makes sense anymore.
- You wonder if you’ll ever feel good enough, if these feelings of failure will ever leave you.
- You’re in disbelief at how your Husband, the man you loved so much has turned so solidly against you and where love once was, all that remains is disbelief, disrespect, even hatred.
- You’re disempowered and depressed about being tied to a man financially and relying on them, yet the thought of not having that also terrifies you.
- You’re questioning how you are going to survive with only your income and the child support/maintenance money your partner will provide?
- You’re terrified of having to earn your own money.
- You feel so disempowered and ashamed, you have NO IDEA about your finances, pensions, mortgages etc. “How do I buy a house, manage any investments (assuming there’s even any money available for them)?”
- You’re terrified of making the same mistakes again and/or of history repeating itself. You’re scared of being alone, scared of never finding anyone else.
- You’re TERRIFIED of living without your Husband’s money because you will be saying goodbye to the family home, the forever house, the shopping, no longer being a lady who lunches, driving the fancy car, saying goodbye to the holidays, the private schools, the Mulberry handbags.
- OR, you’re simply terrified of how you’ll pay the bills, how you and your ex will run two households when there’s already precious little leftover every month.
- You’re dreading or are already scarred by the inappropriate comments, silent judgements and disappointment expressed by others, even well meaning ones.
- You feel guilty because you ‘did well out of your divorce.’
- You don’t feel like you deserve what you’ve been ‘given’ by your ex.
- You’re sabotaging your new life as a result of the guilt, shame and unresolved trauma you now carry.
ALL of the above are the real and true feelings my clients have verbalised and released from working with me. This work is ESSENTIAL to your healing and that of your family before, during or after a separation. It really will set you on a new path to a happier, calmer, more fulfilled life full of potential and opportunity. It’s the new start you’ve been waiting for.
YOU have the key to unlock this potential, my role is to enable you to find this key, and give you the strength to be able to turn it and keep it unlocked!