Liz Hancock, The EFT Coach

For Life: Money, Trauma, Relationships

Welcome to my Website!  You may have just found what you’ve been looking for if you are:

 

A) RUNNING A BUSINESS but know you have MONEY BLOCKS, even money trauma and stories that you know you need to clear.  Do you feel resistance to marketing, selling & is the dreaded ‘Imposter Syndrome’ is a familiar companion?  Do you long to be able to finally feel authentic and aligned with charging your worth, sell without feeling sleazy and STOP the Self Sabotage once and for all?  If this is you please click on the ‘Business’ tab above.

 

B) DIVORCED OR SEPARATED and have ‘TOXIC MONEY WOUNDS’ and/or Trauma from your relationship and break-up?  Do you want to get rid of that constant panic and anxiety about how you are going to make ends meet now you’re surviving on one salary, or on a LOT less money than you had when you were together? Do you feel a sense of betrayal especially due to how things have been since you split, regardless of how ‘amicable’ or ‘respectful’ you’ve tried to make things?  Are you grieving what you always hoped and dreamed would be and stuck between dispair and disbelief?  Or are you celebrating but still as scared as hell as to what the rest of your life might look like? I’m here for you!  Keep to the ‘Life’ sections if this is you. 

 

What of the following statements sound true to you?

 

– I’m just not good enough

– I’m overwhelmed

– I’m burnt out

– This isn’t working

– When will I ever get this right?

– Shouldn’t I just give up and just accept that this isn’t happening for me?

– How much longer can I keep doing this?

– Why oh WHY do I keep on sabotaging myself?

– Why can’t I seem to just take the action I KNOW I need to take?

– What’s stopping me?

– Why can’t I just be consistent?

– I don’t deserve to be rich

– I don’t deserve to be successful

– I don’t deserve to be happy

– I don’t deserve a fulfilling relationship

– I feel so stuck

– Should I go back?

– How can I ever be financially free and not reliant on my partner?

– There are SO many more people out there who are better than me

– I can’t possibly charge more for my services

– If I’m successful then I’ll have no time/people will judge me

– What will my parents/family/spouse/friend’s say if I put myself out there?

– I’m a fraud

– I don’t deserve this

– Life is a struggle.

– I’M JUST NOT GOOD ENOUGH.

 

You get the picture!

 

I use EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique AKA Tapping) together with my coaching skills to get you busting through and releasing your resistance so you really can experience EPIC, FUNDAMENTAL TRANSFORMATION! 

When I discovered and healed then trained as an EFT Practitioner and then a certified ‘Tapping Into Wealth Coach’ EVERYTHING CHANGED and I finally became successful AND happy! I found my secret kryptonite which resulted in a lot more clients feeling the same and experiencing the results that had previously felt were so elusive!

Post divorce, I tweaked my ‘Money Processes’ so they worked for divorce and separation and the multitude of emotions that hit you when you’re going through that. The difference resulted in me standing in my power, not being bullied or accepting what was being ‘given’ to me and enabled me to reach a satisfactory settlement and maintenance agreement with my now ex-husband.

One abusive partner later plus some post separation abuse thrown in for good measure, I can hand on heart say that EFT saved me (several times), and everything that’s been thrown at me I can now see as a gift that tested but also made me one of the strongest people I know!  This is possible for EVERYONE – the only thing special about me is that I have this marvellous tool called EFT that it is my life’s mission to share with as many people as possible!

Empowering and Healing Women and their Money

Finances are the number 1 cause of arguments and the biggest contributing factor when it comes to couples splitting up.

Take a few moments to see how you feel about the following:

  • Your Savings
  • Your Debt
  • Your Income
  • Your Income Goals

If you had any negative feelings when thinking about them, they are very likely to be connected to a time or sense of loss in your life.

You may well have Toxic Money issues – you lost money or didn’t end up with the amount of money you felt was due, or once due to you.


If you’re divorced, separated or separating from a significant partner, or even if you are CONSIDERING separating, ALL of the above are likely to be MUCH MORE SIGNIFICANT. 


Working with me will release the trauma and fear associated to your money and clear the negative associations and impact it has on you, your family and your relationships.

Break-ups revolve around possessions and money as well as who has access to the kids.  But these are so closely related to, and cause deeper feelings of hurt such as:

  • Betrayal, injustice
  • You are traumatised because of all the conflict and at the thought or act of breaking up your family.
  • You’re experiencing anxiety, even panic attacks.
  • You’re tired, run down, you can’t concentrate and have no time for yourself, no motivation to exercise, study, you’re just surviving.
  • You’re so overwhelmed.  Your brain feels like a mangled mess, you question your own reality and nothing ever makes sense anymore.
  • You wonder if you’ll ever feel good enough, if these feelings of failure will ever leave you.
  • You’re in disbelief at how your Husband, the man you loved so much has turned so solidly against you and where love once was, all that remains is disbelief, disrespect, even hatred.
  • You’re disempowered and depressed about being tied to a man financially and relying on them, yet the thought of not having that also terrifies you.
  • You’re questioning how you are going to survive with only your income and the child support/maintenance money your partner will provide?
  • You’re terrified of having to earn your own money.
  • You feel so disempowered and ashamed, you have NO IDEA about your finances, pensions, mortgages etc.  “How do I buy a house, manage any investments (assuming there’s even any money available for them)?”
  • You’re terrified of making the same mistakes again and/or of history repeating itself.  You’re scared of being alone, scared of never finding anyone else.
  • You’re TERRIFIED of living without your Husband’s money because you will be saying goodbye to the family home, the forever house, the shopping, no longer being a lady who lunches, driving the fancy car, saying goodbye to the holidays, the private schools, the Mulberry handbags.
  • OR, you’re simply terrified of how you’ll pay the bills, how you and your ex will run two households when there’s already precious little leftover every month.
  • You’re dreading or are already scarred by the inappropriate comments, silent judgements and disappointment expressed by others, even well meaning ones.
  • You feel guilty because you ‘did well out of your divorce.’
  • You don’t feel like you deserve what you’ve been ‘given’ by your ex.
  • You’re sabotaging your new life as a result of the guilt, shame and unresolved trauma you now carry.
 
 

ALL of the above are the real and true feelings my clients have verbalised and released from working with me.  This work is ESSENTIAL to your healing and that of your family before, during or after a separation.  It really will set you on a new path to a happier, calmer, more fulfilled life full of potential and opportunity. It’s the new start you’ve been waiting for.


YOU have the key to unlock this potential, my role is to enable you to find this key, and give you the strength to be able to turn it and keep it unlocked!